Apr 29, 20224 min read

Have Spanking Bench, Will Travel

Or, how we spent our seven-day D/s honeymoon in the desert instead of going to Hawaii. Or something. Welcome to our blog and to our...

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Nov 18, 20223 min read

Random Thoughts: On Cilantro and Masochism

I've had this thought rolling around in my mind recently: could there be a connection between loving things that you also don't...

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Oct 29, 20225 min read

Hindsight 20/20: Practicing D/s while in crisis

s: We've been skirting around writing about this topic for a hot minute. Because, let's be honest, thinking about the mountain of crap...

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Oct 12, 20221 min read

Interlude into reality: extreme health challenge edition

s: As much as we wish to the contrary, it's not all kinky fun and games all the time over here. As a matter of fact, it's very much the...

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Oct 7, 20222 min read

Choosing versus Forcing Submission (a post by s)

If you’re reading this, I’m pretty sure that you already have an idea about D/s dynamics (honestly, I’d love to know what you googled to...

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Oct 1, 20223 min read

Afternoon Delights (or, the misadventures of daytime kinksters)

s: At least once a week, sweet sweet D assembles our furniture, lays out his tools, and guides us through a delicious scene. It’s a...

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Jun 18, 20222 min read

Fixing a "Fixer"

s: So, this thing happened last night that I'm not super proud of. I said "no" to D. Like, maybe four or five times. In a row. Ouch....

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Jun 11, 20222 min read

Oopsie-daisies! Or, a reflection on what terrible sneaks we are.

s: This topic is, in equal parts, hilarious and cringe-worthy. On multiple levels. It gets to the heart of the "realness" of living a...

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We don't like to brag (99% of the time, people would probably consider us pretty humble), but we have a fantastic life. We have amazing kids, a wonderful extended family, our "forever" home, jobs we love, and good friends. But what really makes our life so rich and complete is the simple fact that we get to live it authentically and together. And for us, to be authentic to ourselves and each other means to live in a 24/7 D/s dynamic...