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Random Thoughts: On Cilantro and Masochism
I've had this thought rolling around in my mind recently: could there be a connection between loving things that you also don't...
Nov 18, 20223 min read
Hindsight 20/20: Practicing D/s while in crisis
s: We've been skirting around writing about this topic for a hot minute. Because, let's be honest, thinking about the mountain of crap...
Oct 29, 20225 min read
Interlude into reality: extreme health challenge edition
s: As much as we wish to the contrary, it's not all kinky fun and games all the time over here. As a matter of fact, it's very much the...
Oct 12, 20221 min read
Choosing versus Forcing Submission (a post by s)
If you’re reading this, I’m pretty sure that you already have an idea about D/s dynamics (honestly, I’d love to know what you googled to...
Oct 7, 20222 min read
Afternoon Delights (or, the misadventures of daytime kinksters)
s: At least once a week, sweet sweet D assembles our furniture, lays out his tools, and guides us through a delicious scene. It’s a...
Oct 1, 20223 min read
Fixing a "Fixer"
s: So, this thing happened last night that I'm not super proud of. I said "no" to D. Like, maybe four or five times. In a row. Ouch....
Jun 18, 20222 min read


Oopsie-daisies! Or, a reflection on what terrible sneaks we are.
s: This topic is, in equal parts, hilarious and cringe-worthy. On multiple levels. It gets to the heart of the "realness" of living a...
Jun 11, 20222 min read


Have Spanking Bench, Will Travel
Or, how we spent our seven-day D/s honeymoon in the desert instead of going to Hawaii. Or something. Welcome to our blog and to our...
Apr 29, 20224 min read
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